Apr 26, 2021 in Life Coaching
Advice for new parents who are working.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Being a new parent and having a full-time career is no easy task. In this article, we give advice for new parents.
So, it’s your first child and it's a joyful period. However, juggling your parenting duties and career at the same time is challenging, emotionally and physically draining.
The good news is that you can get through this and find a balance between your bundle of joy and work.
As your maternal or paternal leave passes, it's perfectly normal for both of you to feel anxious and stressed about this new transition. For new parents, this stage is daunting. Whether you or your partner are working remotely or in an office, the guilt of not being able to take care of your newborn will still be there.
It will get easier and you're not alone. Many other new parents are faced with the same struggles as you are.
Learn how to be a good loving parent. Read this article by George Stack, Online Counselor and Life Coach.
Advice for new parents who are working
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Here are some tips to help you with making your life easier and less stressful:
Find a reliable daycare provider or babysitter
While you're at work, you need to have peace of mind. The only way to achieve this is when you know your baby is in good hands. So, you can look for a reputable daycare in your area or you can find a full-time babysitter. Explore both these options until you figure out which one will be the best for your baby.
In this article, we give tips and advice for new parents.
Delegate with your partner
Both of you are in this together. Therefore, the responsibilities should be split between you both. Here are some examples:
- Having a baby means endless sleepless nights. So, you can take turns, alternate the night duties, etc;
- Take turns to prepare meals. Perhaps, your partner takes care of breakfast and you handle dinner? You can plan and work this out;
- Share the household chores. Same as above, find a way to work this one out.
By helping each other out and working together, you'll see how much easier it will be for both of you.
Prepare easy dinners
Let's face it, after a long day of work, no one really wants to spend hours slogging away in the kitchen. The truth is you can still have a healthy and nutritious meal without having to spend hours cooking. Look for quick recipes or you can buy dinner on days when you and your partner are really tired.
Set a routine and stick to it
With a baby, it is difficult to set a routine. However, start taking the little steps. Go to bed early and take your baby with you. Eventually, your child will get used to it and set into this pattern. If you wake up early every morning you'll also have a head start to your day.
Learn how to make your toddler’s every milestone count. Read this article by Maryam Hameed, Online Life Coach.
Have a backup plan
Things can go wrong. Therefore, always have a backup plan in place. Such as another babysitter, have precooked meals in your freezer, etc. Also, for mothers who are breastfeeding their babies, always ensure that you pump enough milk for the day.
Take care of yourself
Taking care of yourself is essential. In order to care for your family, you need to start with yourself first. Try and prioritize mini-breaks, time for yourself, date nights with your partner, etc.
Read this article self-care tips for parents by Megan McCarthy, Online Life Coach.
Being a new parent is difficult to deal with and it's even more challenging when both you and your partner have full-time jobs. To get parenting advice and tips on how to take care of yourself, you can read through parenting articles and see what others parents found helpful. If you feel you could benefit from professional help, you can book a session with one of our Online Parenting Coaches.