Apr 16, 2021 in Life Coaching
How to cope and deal with separation from your husband.
See how you can heal and move forward.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Going through a separation is never easy. Here, we will give divorce advice for women. It might be difficult to adjust but time heals and it will get easier.
You're probably experiencing a rollercoaster of emotions at this time and this is perfectly normal. Whether it was you or your husband that called for separation, it's still a difficult period.
Adjusting to being alone and single is not easy to get through. Especially when you and your husband have spent years together and you have kids.
Are you going through a breakup? It’s all about perspective. Read this article by Trina Leckie, Online Life Coach.
You are not alone! See the marriage and divorce statistics in this article.
How to cope with separation from your husband and divorce advice for women
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It might be difficult at a time like this but the key to getting through is to stay positive. Know that things will get better and that time will heal. It's perfectly normal to feel depressed, angry and frustrated. However, life will become normal and you'll get used to being separated from your husband.
Breakups are painful! Read this article by Irene Seow, Online Counselor. She discusses strategies on how to move forward even when you're vulnerable.
Don't involve your kids
Children get affected by divorce and separation. This means they're already dealing with negative emotions. Therefore, you shouldn't involve them in your conflict with your spouse. Avoid confiding in them. You need to be strong for their sake.
Though they might be going through a difficult time, it is essential for you to still be a firm parent. Don't prevent them from going about their daily lives. Also, have a routine and ensure that they stick to it. You should also encourage them to get involved in extracurricular activities as this will keep them occupied.
Learn about how divorce and separation can affect children. Read this article by George Stack, Online Counselor and Life Coach.
Learn how to partner with your co-parent and how divorce and separation affect children. Read this article by Latisha Taylor Ellis, Online Therapist.
Avoid arguments with your spouse
It might be tempting and you probably want to offload all your feelings on your husband, but this will only make matters worse. Maintain distance and peace with him. Arguments and fights will only create bigger problems and your kids will become even more affected.
Discover how mediation can help you and the benefits. Read this article by Kimberley Smith, Online Counselor.
Explore your interests and take on a hobby
There must be things that you enjoy doing or if you'd like to occupy yourself and take your mind of the current situation, you should try and take up a new hobby. Avoid doing activities that you used to do with your spouse. Instead, find different things to do. Yoga and meditation are good starting points as these will calm your mind and it is de-stressing.
Divorce and separation have a negative impact on your mental health and this is nothing to be ashamed of. See how you can overcome this.
In this article, we give advice and tips for divorced mothers.
Share your feeling with your family and friends
Now, is the time to surround yourself with the people you love and the ones that will help you through this difficult time. Maintain regular contact with them, confide and express your feelings. It never hurts to have a shoulder to cry on.
Many women find this period extremely stressful and too difficult to get through. If you feel like your world has been turned upside down and you could benefit from professional help.
You can read articles written by professionals on WikiExpert, follow the topic "divorce" and see what others found helpful. You can also book a session with one of the Online Divorce Coaches so that you can get the emotional support you need.