Jul 13, 2020 in Life Coaching
"I hate myself!"
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
“I hate myself!” “I hate my life!” “I don’t like myself.” Do those phrases sound familiar? Perhaps they take up a lot of space in your head, tainting your inner thoughts with self-loathing. If this is the case, you are one of a large group of people worldwide who struggles with self-hate.
While it’s possible for any type of person to experience self-hatred, studies analyzing the way that millennials would describe themselves indicate that this generation is full of self-loathing.
Earlier this year, the UK’s National Health Service reported a doubling of hospitalizations due to self-harm in the past ten years. Adolescent girls also tend to experience overwhelming self-hatred more than other groups, with as many as seven out of ten girls thinking that they’re not good enough.
"Why do I hate myself?”
There are many reasons why you might be experiencing symptoms of self-hatred. If you are experiencing instances of bullying or abuse, for instance, you might think, “If other people hate me, I should hate myself, too.”
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Loathing oneself might also be prompted by psychiatric diagnoses such as major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, or personality disorders. Traumatic events of all kinds may also have this unfortunate outcome.
No matter the reason, self-hatred is a dangerous thing.
The harm of self-loathing.
So, why is it so dangerous? Self-hate is more than just a mindset. In many ways, this type of thinking can become a lifestyle, a mantra that breeds only feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness. When these hating thoughts and feelings become all-consuming, they may foster unhealthy feelings that lead to:
- A lack of self-confidence;
- Difficulty navigating relationships;
- Self-harm behaviors;
- Having no motivation to take care of oneself.
Moving on from a hateful mindset.
There are just as many ways to overcome self-hatred as there are people who struggle with these negative thoughts, making the recovery process from hate entirely achievable but sometimes a matter of trial and error.
For the best results as you learn how to stop hating yourself, we suggest that you team up with an ally who can help you to discover the best ways to love yourself.
What works for one person may not work for another, but speaking with an Online Life Coach will help you to connect personally with an Expert who can help you learn what works for you.
These personalized recovery plans may take some time to develop, but regular online life coaching sessions will yield progress with patience.
If you’re ready to stop hating yourself and embrace a life full of self-love instead of self-hate.