Feb 11, 2021 in Life Coaching

Forgiveness

The 7 steps on how to forgive and positively never forget.

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

28 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

28 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

28 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

28 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

28 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

28 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

28 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

28 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Acknowledge the pain, guilt, and shame. Allow yourself to feel this for the last time, but only briefly. I say briefly because it is probably something that you've been carrying with you for a long time now. It's time to stop wasting time and soon release yourself from this negative energy.

Remember why you feel this way. Let it sink in because it will be a life lesson, and the next time it happens - you will know if you handled it in a good manner or you'll consider what you can do differently.

Acceptance of the past. The past is gone, dust, and sure, it existed. However, now it is just a part of our memories...our somewhat distorted and perceptive memories. Sometimes the whole memory isn't even concrete.

Consider what you can do to change the issue or what will make you feel better.

Forgive yourself and/or others.

Take away a positive lesson. For every action and situation, there is something positive that can come out if it!

Love yourself and those around you, and remember that people are human. We only have today and it’s what we make of it with ourselves and those we love. Life is too short to be angry. I say we only have today because we literally and concretely have today. Yesterday is gone, and tomorrow will soon be today. Next week, next year, will someday be today. But nothing is guaranteed accept for today. So be present and love yourself because nothing will bring peace accept for self love.