A well defined who let's you find your audience. It happens only if you are self-aware!
Have you ever been in that place, where you knew you were lying, but you didn't accept it?
That happens to all of us. There are many situations in life and events where our inside keeps reminding us that don't go that way, you are lying! Which means we keep denying harsh truths of life...
Maybe it's easier to be comfortable? And it's in human nature that it's comfortable to live a life with lies as it's easier rather than embracing simple truths.
The bad news...
" It's a deceptive life."
The good news...
"You can take charge of it!"
Start accepting that you lie to yourself just to be comfortable. Become aware of this fact to start living a life where you discover yourself with your negative aspects also. That will transform you!