Dec 20, 2020 in Life Coaching

The psyche of an Addict

What are you addicted to?

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

2 Jun

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

2 Jun

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

31 May

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

31 May

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

2 Jun

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

2 Jun

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

2 Jun

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

30 May

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

30 May

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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We relate addiction to drugs and drinking. Let's discuss it on a wider scale... Addiction means to do something, or to behave or react on something repeatedly and intentionally.

When you look at the pattern of an Addict, the addiction he/she gets is practiced first, on having leisure time basis becoming a need and turning into a routinely habit without which one cannot live.

Drugs and drinking is an extreme, but one can be addicted to anything, like... Coffee, Music, Movie hours, Watching a Season... It can be anything!

We need to understand Why someone becomes an Addict, at first place?

When you constantly feel, that you have something missing in life or you are realized constantly about it.. You try to cover that certain weakness. Let's say, someone tells you, "you are always sad". That's a simple sentence with a huge negative impact on you, why? It made you think you don't have happiness in life. So, to show you are happy, you start covering it up by staying "high". Ultimately, leading you to be sad in real for life with feelings of regrets and all that, Why did I do this to myself?

And once it becomes a thing without which you can't live... What we find in extreme cases is, they start self harming ending up being suicidal.

But, here is my question...

Why not become an Addict of doing something good???

Taking the same sentence as above, why not make our selves used to, carrying a "smiley face"? That may seem as a pretence at first, but will lead you to be happy, ultimately. How? Your smile can make others smile. You made others happy, so a day with that achievement of "done good" is better than regrets. And making you live longer and happier to keep up with this cause.

Let's be an addict to do good!