Nov 27, 2020 in Life Coaching
Learn, how to deal with chaotic situations.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Do you know when things get chaotic? For instance, just think, what will happen if for a single micro second the planets move from thier orbits? Or we have a good recent example, when earth was shut down...
What we always expect is, things will go as the nature or science or rules and regulations commands. Take, for example, the apple falling from the tree. We all know it, it will ultimately fall to the ground. But, if supposedly it flies, that's when our minds will enter the level of "CHAOS". What is the common reaction to chaos??
We get demoralised, distracted and puzzled! We take chaos, a negative thing... Why? Because, our mind is set on that,"the things will go as they are". And, when they don't , we get lost in bewilderment created by our own minds. They are not a product of NATURE, It's Our MIND.
Can chaos be taken positive? If yes, how?
When we focus on "chaos" we will not get answers. But, when we focus on what "IT" teaches, that's going to help us a lot in a positive way.
Question is, what does it teach you?...
Go back and read the starting lines of this post...what is it all about??
And unpredictability says, BE READY FOR EVERYTHING! It tells you, every time things won't work the way "you" planned. You should learn to accept somethings, that get out of the way...and also, that somethings are not in your hands, it's destined to be like that. When you will think like this, Chaos will become a friend of yours...
"It's all about finding the calm in the chaos". Quotes 'no Notes