Nov 23, 2020 in Life Coaching
Effective 8-Tip Parenting Direction
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Being a parent is not as easy at seems. You may face a toddler, who keeps on crying; a teen, who might not understand the wisdom behind your "No" or may even encounter a problem from your grown up child, let's say who isn't serious in setting up a career or relationship. This is just the tiniest picture of problems, when it comes to "Parenting".
Only a healthy parenting can help raise a child being more of a good person. Let's cut it short to the discussion and jump onto the tips...
1. The first and foremost effect your child takes is from your relationship with your own partner. It's quite important to make your child believe, that there is a strong bond between you two. For that I say better to avoid fights in front of your child. As for single parents, that's not a problem.
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Point is, they are going to walk on your footsteps. So, make thier home, the very first positive place to learn from. I.e, try to become an institution for them.
2. Make your child feel loved. Tell your child/children often that you love him/her. Providing with all the needs is not enough. Support and Appreciate them, it may help them know better that they aren't being neglected.
3. Always be there for your child by say, showing up on their school ceremonies or when they even want to solve a problem. Hear them out, be their own personal counselor. As, this will build the child-parent trust, which is again, important.
4. You should know, when to say "No" and "Yes". It's not necessary not to give permission to your child when it comes to playing with friends or being at friend's house. It should be balanced by sometimes saying yes to it. But, explain your child why you said no.
This is just one situation, the reason to point it out is actually that, keep telling them the good and the bad.
5. Don't scold your child, when in an argument or a bad mood. If your child is not cooperating with you or not understanding you, trust me, scolding won't work, it may worsen the situation. Talk on it later that, why did he/she do that. Try to deal it according to the nature of your child.
6. Keep the track of what's your child doing. As it's an e-world now, you need to keep an eye more. Get yourself aware of what's new. Again, if you say no often, they might learn it or get it from elsewhere. So, take them in confidence and just watch over them.
7. Kids are smart creatures. Don't impose on them, also see what they have in their mind. Stay flexible and be a fun person rather than just sticking to your work or making them sit for studies. Go on short vacations or say have a play time or a brief healthy outing or so.
8. To all parents out there, read on parenting stuff more and get coached to it, to know more techniques and to apply them in an effective way.
Hope that, reading this might have helped you a little. Start working on it, and see the results.