Nov 14, 2020 in Life Coaching
The way you see the world!
A story about overcoming adversity....
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
When I was 18 I nealry had the bottom half of my lef amputated. This happened through me playing football and suffered a trauma to my lower right leg. I went to the hospital who told me that I had compartment syndrome and that they would operate to relive the pressure.....this did not go to the plan. They had to remove 2 parts of muscle in my calf which has effected my power and movement, and through this there was no blood flow going to my foot.
It got so far they then sent an amputee to my bedside to explain what would happen and what life would be like. When he left, I turned to my Mum and said "thats not me" I asked the doctor what the chances were for my leg to survive and he 20%, so I took my chances. I was so determined for that not to be me. They operated and it was a success.
When I woke up they said they saved my leg, however I would not be able to walk again! I thought I was being stubborn, and said "No" I would walk again! I had been in bed for 3 weeks, not being able to stand up or sit up! One morning the physio came round and I was so excited as I thought she as was going to help me walk.....she wasn't. I told her with out without her help I was going to stand up! She reluctanlty helped me, I sat up in bed and......was sick everywhere!!! I was so hot, came over all flush and then slept for the next 3 hours, it took so much out of me.
Add to myWE:
The next morning she came in again to see how I was, I said I was fine and we were going to try again, she couldnt believe, this time I managed to sit up....no standing yet!!
I had set myself a challenge to walk out of that hospital..... 3 weeks later I did just that, so be it 2 steps and with help of a wheelchair but I did it!!
I spent the next 6 - 12 months in a wheelchair, cructhes and walking aids to help me get to where I am today, where I can walk around freely without aids and live a 'normal life' I still go to phsyio and gym weekly to keep up my programme to ensure I do not get worse.
My point to the story is, when I was 18 I thought I was stubborn, I did not know about solution thinking or growth mindset but I had both.
There are 2 ways you can see the world, you can see the thing you want, or you can see the thing that stops you getting the thing you want. I always seee what I want, I always believe there is solution to everything...,we just have to find it!!