Do you realize that nothing has life until we give it? Whatever you are aware of, whatever you focus your attention on, you give those things "existence " in your life. This article is about being self dependent. It is also about being aware of your everyday thoughts and things you are giving your attention to. The answer is already within you, and once you are aware of it, your thought process will begin to change. Sometimes we dim our own light by doubting self. So what are you really giving your attention to? I hope that it's joy, happiness, Love and success! We all want these good things, and we can have them, but few people seem to grasp it. It's because most of their attention, most of their energy is focused on the wrong thing. So ask yourself, what am I giving life to?