Jun 3, 2022 in Life Coaching
Critical Thinking 101
This interaction between a professor and his student illustrates how important it is to think.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Like so many other college students having little direction in life, I decided to take a course in philosophy my freshman year in college back in the summer of 1965 and I’ll never forget the first day’s lesson. As a footnote, that day was not only my first day in college but the first day Ball State Teacher’s College proudly displayed its new moniker — Ball State University.
Professor Dudley: Good morning. (Then pausing for but a few seconds to gaze about the room as if taking mental attendance.) Okay, let’s get started.
At that moment a few students just sat back to listen, others — the academics — dutifully reached for their notebooks and a pencil. I was a member of the former group and I’m certain of that because the only reason I was in college at all was to avoid the draft. So having no real academic purpose it just seemed like a good idea to take a course in philosophy so, if I ever ran into John Lennon, I’d be able to carry on a fairly intelligent conversation.
Professor Dudley: (Walking to and pointing at each object in due course.) This isn’t a blackboard, it’s a lemon. This chair isn’t a chair it’s a cactus and this door isn’t a door but a window. He then paused to gauge the confused looks on everyone’s faces.
Professor Dudley: Questions?
The class as a whole was a bit slow to grasp the question but a tall student dressed in hippie gear and headband finally raised his hand and the professor acknowledged him.
Student: (Stepping to the front of the room, books in hand.) Let me get this right. That isn’t a blackboard, it’s a lemon. That isn’t a chair it’s a cactus and that isn’t a door but a window.
Professor Dudley: (With an all knowing smile on his face.) Yes.
Student: (As he opened the classroom door to exit.) Then you’re not a professor, you’re an idiot.
Professor Dudley: (Smiling broadly.) Well done. Class dismissed.
It took a few days (if not weeks) for me to comprehend the point he was trying to make (he never elaborated), but I must say the lesson was by far the most thought provoking one he taught all semester.
For me the lesson was simple. You don’t learn much if you check your brains at the door.