Nov 4, 2020 in Counseling

How to find love under the stars

There is a saying we all know that you will find love when you are not looking for it. Sounds good in writing but when you explore the concept that cannot be true. Be the best version of yourself and I am sure your relationship with feel like you are u

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When I asked her to marry me it felt natural and not rushed, things do not have to be perfect, there is really no such thing as perfection, but nothing compares to the feeling of being on the path of self-discovery.

As a relationship therapist and dealing with thousands of persons in relationships I have come to one conclusion, there is no need for games, seduction and bribery if you truly want to find true love under the stars, why would you want to be in a relationship with someone you had to manipulate to be with you, why would you want to be with someone you had to beg to be with, to show your assets in justifying your value?

Each relationship is unique, just as each person is unique, so how your relationship unfolds will be unique too. You can’t plan for it to go a particular way. You have to engage with the process of it and with each other, and then make decisions as you go. There is no one line you can say, no one action you can take, that will lead to a particular result.

Be the best version of yourself and I am sure your relationship with feel like you are under the stars. Nothing can prevent your relationship from working if you are investing in yourself, not even a pandemic.  

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