Apr 1, 2021 in Therapy
Do distance attunements, and so distance healing, really work?
The fact that you believe something is working or not doesn't change the results, but it does change the way you perceive it
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Do distance attunements, and so distance healing, really work?Mar 26 2021
When I first approached Reiki to become a practitioner one of the main point that made my heart beat faster and the eyes shine, was the knowledge of being able, in the second degree, to perform distant healing.
I started to live abroad when I was 23 years old, the first country was Australia and as you can imagine a 1 week trip to visit my family every now and then, wasn't an option.
For as much as I was enjoying my life and wouldn't go back for anything in the world, I admit I suffered for not being able to physically be present in helping my family and my friends, especially when they were calling to share struggles and difficulties.
The sense of impotence was overwhelming at times and hard to shake off. Even so, I persisted and tried my best even by distance.
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But when I found out there was a way to actually HELP my beloved people, even from far away, I HAD TO learn it and do it.
This led me to spontaneously send healing to my family and friends. Was normal to me since I always had a deep connection to my people and to feel them by distance wasn't hard at all. Never had the slightest doubt that the healing wasn't working.
But I can understand the point of view of someone that never experienced anything like that, let alone a distance healing session or attunement, for that matter.
I had my first degree attunement in person and 2nd and Master by distance and yes, the experience it is different but not because of the physical presence of the Teacher.
It is our expectation of what we 'should' feel that hinders the experience itself.
The first degree attunement in presence was intense and mystical, felt the very same night unbearable heat in my hands and heard my father's voice for the first time after he trepassed.
The distance attunements were very different but nevertheless powerful.
My abilities to channel increased exponentially but gradually, while after the first attunement the physical perception was heighthened instantly.
Again, wasn't a matter of an 'in person or by distance' procedure, but of what we make of the experience and the preconceived idea we have about it.
The fact that you believe something is working or not doesn't change the results, but it does change the way you perceive it.
The intentions that you put into something, on the contrary, affects the outcome 100%.
When Reiju is performed by a Master Teacher in the Reiki healing discipline, it is the intention of the Teacher that changes the game.
The Master has to be open, wholeheartedly open, to pass onto his/her recepient/student the gift of wisdom that comes from connecting to the divine source of all things and resides in all of us.
It is a remembrance of what it is like to be connected to the source more than a transmission of anything.
The recipient/student, on the other hand, has to be willing to open up, wholeheartedly, to the gift of life that already is present in all of us.
Because this is the first step to be able to self-heal, consciously accessing what is already there.
Once you're able to identify this gift into yourself, then is natural you expand it outwardly to others; to be able to reactivate it with them while performing a healing session.
This is my experience of Reiju, from a student and teacher perspective.
Many may agree or disagree, surely no one have had the same experience because we are unique and this beautiful uniqueness is what makes us Us.
With very much Love & Care ❤️