Nov 8, 2020 in Life Coaching

Pull Your Self together, now.

When you know who you are...

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

29 May

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

29 May

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

31 May

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

31 May

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

29 May

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

29 May

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

29 May

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

30 May

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

30 May

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Hypnosis

When you know who you are
And can see through your veils
Your old fears become wind in your sails
Then your heart ease unfurled
From the hypnosis of your world

When you know who you are
The darkness the light, love loves it all
Cause love has no fight, what has passed is a dream
What is not here is not what it seems

So pull yourself together now

When you know who you are and nothing to hide
Loves at your feet and the hands at your side
When your ears are your words
The silence can always be heard

When you know who you are
You can't help but let go
You know no ones right
You know you don't know
The paradox becomes less absurd
As your hypnosis unwhirls

So pull yourself together now

What's the matter with..
What's the matter with..
What's the matter with you

Did it crush, did it shatter? Did it break or did it scatter?
Did it tear your little heart in two?

What's done is over
Yeah if you want something new

Just pull yourself together now
So pull yourself together now
So pull yourself together now
So pull yourself together now
All I have is all I need, and all I need is here now.

Damien Rice. Hypnosis [from "Kahlil Gibran's The Prophet" Soundtrack]

This songs always makes me feel peaceful in times of doubts. When you self-doubt all your work, capabilities or even your whole life, this song very soothing and inspirational.

I warmly recommend to listen, paying particular attention to the lyrics as well as the melody.

Words have this hermetic quality in themselves, which conveys deep meaning for the ones who are able to see.

And we are able to see when we observe with our inner eyes, with the vision of our heart.

How do we do that?

Absurdly enough, when we train our inner vision, we begin with listening. Which becomes feeling.

When we learn to see and hear from our inner senses, everything makes much more sense.

A great deal of showing what I mean, can be found in the animation movie “The Prophet” (full title Kahlil Gibran's The Prophet) a 2014 animated drama film adapted from Kahlil Gibran's book The Prophet.

As better told in this article by Katie Priesley :

“Animation's project is to convey a full range of feeling and experience using simple lines, and that's a project Rice's music shares. Rice doesn't have a showy voice, but his delivery and lyrics combine to make deeply emotive music built with uncomplicated tools.”

With very much Love

Lara