Apr 22, 2021 in Life Coaching
How often does the Archetypal pattern of Self Sabotage show up in your daily life?
Understanding the 4 Survival Archetypes & how they effect our daily lives is extremely important for SO many reasons!
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Understanding the 4 Survival Archetypes & how they effect our daily lives is extremely important as we are making choices every minute, consciously or unconsciously, and these decisions either empower or dissempower you!
If you keep repeating the same mistakes & are tired of letting yourself down: sit down and take some notes considering seriously 'How you feel about...' the following:
1) How do you feel about your current environment (work & home life)? List the positive areas & the negative.
2) How do you feel about the people around you (family, friends & colleagues), what kind of dialogue are you immersing yourself in & around, are you inspired by the words and actions of those around you, or not? Are they supportive of you, your hopes and aspirations, or not?
3) Do you have an idea (hope or dream) of how you wish your future to be, or not at all?
If you have: do you know what it looks like, when & how you will get there?...
Sadly, we don't take the time to reflect and re-evaluate our lives often enough in order to ‘course-correct’ at the moments when change is most needed.
We've become disconnected from our intuition (to what our soul is communicating to us) because we allow life stresses & outside factors to take priority over our time, thoughts and energy.
Then as the years pass-by underlaying tensions build and our health is eventually effected.
Reflection & life re-sets are ABSOLUTELY necessary from time to time should we wish to remain (or become) holistically healthy! So, NEVER feel guilty about being honest with yourself and when you speak about how you feel with others.
For some of us it’s our life’s work, to have the courage to speak-up and it’s ok if so. It is although CRUCIAL for our soul that we give it a go!... avoiding conversations and situations that may feel scary will only come back around, again and again until we face them and move through them.
If you wish to explore the deeper the reasons why we struggle with destructive behaviour patterns such as Self Sabotage then I invite you to learn about the profound language of Archetypes and Sacred Contracts. Archetypes are universal patterns of power that literally govern our behaviour, and should be considered seriously should you be struggling with low self-esteem, procrastination, a life transition, forward movement or healing from a past event or trauma of any kind.
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The realisation of Sacred Contracts and Archetypal forces came only 5 years ago to me, at the end of a long personal healing journey of over 30 years. Learing how they relate to my life helped me to 'join the dots' of my past and empowered me to take control of my life.
These modalities literally form a map and give us a deep understanding of who we've become today and gently they direct us away from simply accepting our life situation as fate, to instead charting our destiny!
The exploration to be done around these two healing practices is one of the first steps I share with clients because they enable quite simply; acceptance, surrender, clarity of purpose and authentic empowerment moving forward . They are honestly very POWERFUL to embrace ✨