Oct 19, 2020 in Life Coaching

Do you know what NLP means?

Neuro Linguistic Programming works by de-stabilising those unwanted and frustrating ‘programmes’ in your brain.

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

28 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

28 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

28 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

28 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

28 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

28 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

28 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

28 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Neuro Linguistic Programming works by de-stabilising those unwanted and frustrating ‘programmes’ in your brain, the ones which are causing problems for you. So anything that the brain has learnt, that is no longer useful, can be ‘un-learnt’. More importantly NLP builds new, positive patterns in the brain, which bring about positive thoughts, feelings and behaviours. It literally works by ‘re-wiring’ your brain, for positive and desired change, and allows you to not only make change, but also to feel good!

This process is called ‘Neural Plasticity’, meaning that instead of our brains being static lumps of matter, which deliver genetically programmed instructions to the mind and the body, our brains are actually able to be molded and shaped. We are in charge of shaping our brains, in turn we can also be in charge of re-designing our thought patterns, feelings, responses and ultimately our behaviours. How liberating! In changing your thinking, you can begin the steps to changing your life.

My clients success stories:

Oh my God! I had a life changing experience ... Tanja you were wonderful and I mean it! I feel so different after this session and I kind of can not stop smiling - it’s crazy. You really helped me to understand what was deeply inside me and that was bothering me all this years ... I feel very much free and spiritual after the exercises which we did , they were just mind-blowing and all the tips and information which you gave it is priceless!!! So big and exiting work on myself ahead! Thank you so much my coach!

Yulia Loburetc from Russia

I did not have any expectations about NLP session and after the session with Tanja and I was speechless. What happened, really surprised me in a positive way and it was unbelievable what I conciously discovered in my subconcious mind. I am very grateful for this experience which definitely showed me what was bothering me for so long. Thank you dear Tanja for everything! Thank you for your coaching, all the help you have given me, and millions of useful information. You really are a great girl! I highly recommend everyone to book a session with her and see what is hiding in their minds and how easy they can heal themselves and do any progress. Everyone should give a try to this kind of coaching.

Lea Novinšek from Slovenia