Sep 24, 2020 in Life Coaching
Setting the tone for the day.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Oh that morning coffee. That wake me up and handle another day routine. I can gaurentee you that each an everyday as soon as our eyes open that the thoughts start flowing in. All of those "I gotta do this and that". Well hello Auto-pilot. Our minds are so focused and programmed on the to-do list. But in that to-do list, wheres the time penciled in for yourself. When you come home an shower and hop in your most comfy jammies just to lay your head down an think about tomorrow. That is not what life is about. What if I told you that simplifying your life could lead to a longer more fulfilled life. The stressors of our daily life is what triggers our illnesses. Headaches, stomach and heart disease all stem from stress. Now im not saying slack on your daily responsibities, but instead implement new ways of handling your day to day tasks. Wake up in the morning an start with a simple affirmation. What am I grateful for? With each sip of coffee (tea) speak nothing but goodness. Your already shifting your perception for the day.For me personally I do this daily along with writting myself little notes. smiling more at strangers, holding the door open for the next ones. Those little acts of kindess that you can do threw out the day are honestly effortless. You put so much time an effort in what is expected of you by others, but what about your expectations for self? how many times a day do you say, "I wish I could do that" or "Why can't that be me". This one takes the cake..."I can't do anything!". Who says you can't, yourself? You only say those things because you don't believe in yourself enough and people have clouded your mind with their visions. Sadly with the way the world is, its easier to put people down then give them a compliment. If people understood that a simple, "Good Job","I'm proud of you", or a "You look nice today" could mend the hearts of so many. Everyone needs a little pick me up. Thats literally the reason why I start it with my cup of coffee in the morning. Then I know that, that little morning pick me up will allow me to stay focused on what MY heart wants and My vision will be clear for the day. I will say that these little changes will magnify into something greater. So start your mornings with your best intentions an even if you have a little hiccups threw out the day, remember who you are and all that you want to achieve. Throw in a few extra "I cans" an see where it takes you. I know, I know how can one cup of coffee change my life. Its not the coffee, its that feel good sensation after that first sip. Thats all you need, all those feel goods!!!! I can tell you from my crazy life that, the first sip of coffee is my motivation!! I can tackle the world!! Awake, Aware and Alert.