Nov 18, 2020 in NLP
Nature prompts humanity to seek love in the pandemic world
Nature has been our best teacher during the pandemic. It taught us to balance between 'doing' and 'being'.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Nature prompts humanity to seek love in a pandemic world
September 2, 2020
Auckland, September 2, 2020Nature symbolises tenderness, love and care (Image by Mylene2401 from Pixabay)
Love is deep inner strength, faith and appreciation.
True, Altruistic, Selfless love is rare and sets you free, contrary to the darker side of destruction, anger, pain, lust and jealousy seen in movies, social media and our mundane lives now.
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Is love confined to only romantic relationships? How often do we seek love and beauty in humanity, family, Nature or an art form?
Purpose in life
An Indian woman was depressed as she was unable to bear children.
Drowned in sadness, she attempted suicide; however, survived.
This incident shook her world and made her realise that there must be a purpose behind her survival.
Mother Nature is our best healer. She started enjoying her long-forgotten passion for gardening, by raising trees like beautiful children.
Till date, this 109-year-old woman has planted over 300 trees, covering acres of land and still counting.
Jealousy and possessiveness
We, humans become jealous and possessive towards our loved ones, fear of losing them to someone else makes us control or seek attention.
Attachment leads to suffering.
We clench upon and suffocate them with obsession. The birds have a beautiful connection with the trees upon which they build nests. It is adorable to watch the hungry birds carrying grains in their tiny beaks, flying miles to feed their young ones.
What a heart-melting depiction of selfless nursing love!
We, humans, are like birds; however, caged in the walls of religion, race, limited beliefs, anger, jealousy.
In contrast to the baby birds pushed out of their nests to fly; as parents sometimes, we overprotect our children trying to fit them in our moulds.
Challenges change people
With changing times, challenges change too. So how can we prepare our young ones to face the world in the same frame? With love in our hearts, create space to fly and help accelerate their growth rather than hinder the process or tie them up with obsession and fear of falling.
Our job as parents is to teach them the joy of bouncing back from failures and taking their first step towards success, enjoying and accepting the beautiful journeys along with challenges.
In my opinion, love is God’s gift for all of us. So, feel it from within in your darkest moments and spread the joy of being around. Love is light and makes me spread my wings and fly.
It does sound like a fantasy world as in reality, we neither have wings nor can fly. But if we look at the world from the eyes of an innocent child, it is pure, serene, peaceful…full of joy and happiness.
Covid-19, the teacher
With a pandemic like Covid-19, Nature has forced us to take a break and peep into our material world that we seek happiness. We wear false masks to fit into Nature.
Nature is the best teacher if you allow it to be. Ask yourself only one question. What would Nature do? Seek a balance in ‘being’ and ‘doing.’ Drop by at a loved one’s place and do some good deeds as each good deed sets you free, and each kind word makes you strong.
A shocking reminder to all of us to enjoy and cherish life’s little moments and beautiful spirits of people around us amidst the rocky terrain.