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    May 28, 2020 in Life Coaching

    4 fixes for fear

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    4 fixes for fear

    4 fixes for fear

    Recognise 

    Respond

    Rendezvous

    Release 

    Recognise your fear:

    • Recognise that whatever you are feeling or believing is just a fear and nothing else. 
    • Go into the roots of the belief from where your fear rises from. 
    • Gather all the evidence in you mind that proves to you that your belief is untrue. 
    • Have an empowering self talk to conquer your fear.

    Respond to your fear 

    • Do not react at once, step back, pause and respond.
    • Make a plan for how you want to overcome your fear.
    • Judge and decide how important it is for you to overcome your fear.
    • List down things that your fear is stopping you from doing.

     Rendezvous with your fear 

    • Come face to face with a situation depicting your fear, look into eyes of your fear.
    • Make an escape plan beforehand.
    • If possible keep an ally on your side who can encourage you to get through the situation and/or pull you out of it if required. 
    • Take a deep breath and stay as calm as possible, panicking make the situation worst than it actually is.

    Release your fear 

    • Rest and rejuvenate if required after a combat with the situation. 
    • Talk to someone about your requirements, concerns and achievements, inspire yourself and others. 
    • Challenge and motivate yourself to overcome a similar situation in future.
    • Feel the emotion, whatever comes on the surface and gently release and let go of your fear.

    Remember fear means 

    F: false

    E: experience 

    A: appearing 

    R: real 

    So stay in the reality to remove the illusion and get rid of your fear.

    NAMASTE