As believers, we have to ask God to direct our thoughts and actions. And we must confess when our actions are not grounded in love. The Bible tells us we are to reflect on things that are “true, noble, right, and pure….” (Philippians 4:8). We are a society with information overload. But we must always be highly discriminatory in the information we digest. Neurologists have proven, negative thought patterns can change brain chemistry and affect the immune system and other areas.
An anonymous author attempted to trace how thoughts lead to actions, habits, character, and an individual’s destiny. The author’s assumptions have some validity, however, this is not a natural progression for every thought:
“Sow a thought, reap a deed.
Sow a deed, reap a habit
Sow a habit, reap a character
Sow a character, reap a destiny"
Emotions
Guarding the heart is also protecting our emotions. We are instructed to love God and our neighbors as ourselves (Mark 12:30-31). So guarding our heart does not mean refraining from loving. However, we can choose with whom we build relationships. Some relationships are psychologically or spiritually unsafe and the scriptures are fraught with examples: Samson and Delilah, Joseph and Potiphar’s wife, or Solomon and his pagan wives. The saying, “hurt people, hurt others” often rings true. We all have blind spots and deficiencies in relationships. When an individual is unaware of their psychological baggage, they may unintentionally hurt someone else. Traumas from childhood or a past relationship may cause some people to transfer those unmet needs, desires, and expectations onto another. But God is the healer. Mental health professionals or pastors can sometimes help with the healing process. Before forging a long-term relationship, we should always ask God if it aligns with his will for our lives.
In Conclusion, We must guard our hearts! The word heart appears 826 times in the King James Version of the Bible. Our prayer should be for God’s wisdom in every circumstance. According to the scriptures, we are “ In all our ways, to acknowledge him and he will direct our paths” (Proverbs 3:6). God’s way never leads to confusion or violates his law of love. It gives us peace!
References
The Holy Bible: King James Version. (2004). New York: American Bible
Additional References
Shaw, D. (2021, January 13). The Crucible of Love. Retrieved January 14, 2021, from https://wikiexpert.com/articles/2635/1644/the-crucible-of-love
Shaw, D. (2021, January 21). Designed to Love. Retrieved January 11, 2021, from https://wikiexpert.com/articles/2635/1629/designed-to-love