Sep 15, 2021 in Life Coaching
How to Prepare for Marriage and Not Just the Wedding
Are you getting married soon? Here we will give advice for newlyweds.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Are you getting married soon? Here we will give advice for newlyweds. Not wedding tips but how to prepare for marriage.
How to Prepare for Marriage
1. Ask as many questions as you need:
While making a list of questions try to cover every aspect of life. Ask questions related to love, responsibilities, family, career, finances and anything else that you have in mind.
2. Analyze the character of your partner:
Take note of your partner's character so that you know what to expect in your marriage.
3. Know the weakness and work on it:
Good communication is a key to a successful relationship and everyone has weaknesses.
You can work on each other's weaknesses together as a team and later on in your marital life, it will help you both should you face any difficulties.
4. Learn how to express yourself:
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In every relationship and life in general, expressing yourself in a healthy manner is essential.
If you can’t express yourself to your partner, then it can create a lot of misunderstandings. It will also be more difficult for your partner to make you happy.
So, learn vital communication skills and learn how to express yourself to prevent future problems.
5. Make a checklist together:
Prepare a checklist together, which is related to your commitment, goals and how you plan to achieve all this.
Mention what you are expecting from this marriage and vice versa.
6. Stay committed:
Commitment is essential for a long-lasting and happy marriage. So, both you and your partner need to stay committed to one another.
7. Family planning:
Discuss how many children you and your partner would like to have and when. You can also discuss how it will play into your careers and finances.
8. Discuss finances:
Let's face it, money plays an important role in our lives. Therefore, you should feel free to discuss this with your partner.
Speak about saving money, your spending habits and your financial goals. You can also ask your partner what their financial goals are and you work from here.
This can also prevent problems in the future.
9. Discuss your expectations:
You and your partner will have expectations in your marriage. So, feel free to discuss these beforehand so you are both aware of each other's expectations.
Teamwork is essential for a happy marriage. So, start thinking like a team and work towards achieving all your goals together as a team.
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