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Ultimate Marriage Guide

Marriage is the most beautiful part of everyone’s life.

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Marriage is the most beautiful part of everyone’s life. Everyone wants a life partner who loves them and lives together forever.

What marriage is all about?

Marriage is all about the mutual agreement between two people that live together, with the promise of sharing everything.

Under this agreement, both people connected emotionally, legally, and economically.

Marriage is all about sharing love, happiness, sorrow, trust, sacrifice, caring for each other.

There is no absolute definition of marriage. It’s differing from culture to culture and people to people. Marriage is also known as matrimony and wedlock.

What is the purpose of marriage?

Marriage provides stability:

The most important purpose why people get married is because marriage provides you emotional and physical stability in your life.

Help to build society:

Marriage helps you build a family, a family makes society, and society makes a country. Marriage provides new life to the country.

Experience love:

Without marriage, you never know the real meaning of love and relationship.

Give away from living life:

Without marriage, your life becomes boring because you never know exactly how you spent your life. Marriage gives you a way of living life with your partner.


Being a parent is the most beautiful part of everyone’s life and it is a great gift of God. Parenting experience comes with you only after marriage.

Types of marriage

Convenience marriage:

People make this type of marriage because of their selfishness or to full fill their personal expectations. Mutual understanding in Convenience Marriage is not found.

There is no place for love, intimacy, and emotion, instead fulfilling their personal wishes or another practical reason is the primary goal.

Abusive marriage:

In this type of marriage where you are psychologically, sexually, physically, and emotionally abuse by your partner to achieve power and control over you.

No one wants this type of relationship if someone gets into this their life is not going easy and it’s a little complicated to get out of this thing.

Status marriage:

In this type of marital status and money is a primary goal. There is no place for love and emotion.

People marry for their social pride or status in society.

Invisible spouse marriage:

In this type of marriage, a person is feeling unimportant because of their partner.

Your partner did not give you enough time because of office work and outdoor activities. You feel insecure and painful condition and it really hurts you, if your partner has no time for you. Life feels quite boring. 

Enduring marriage:

This type of marriage everyone’s dreaming about because this type of marriage going life long.

Enduring marriage does not happen suddenly, you have to prove yourself for this by showing your hard work, passion, commitment, and love before marriage.

As a partner, you have to build your trust and support your partner unconditionally.

Reasons why people marry?

Marriage is a very essential part of human life because marriage is a great institution made by God. Marriage gives a reason to spend life with love and relationship.

There is the following reason which helps you to figure out why marriage is important and why people marry:

Social security:

Only marriage can provide you social security and validate your love and relationship with your partner. Marriage gives you the freedom to live with your partner happy.

Get respect from society:

If you are married your relationship gets respect in society otherwise without marriage society does not give respect to your love.

Provide support and growth:

As we know a human is a social animal, we can’t live alone or out of society. These people get married and support each other, physically, mentally, and financially.

Life is not a cup of cake it is full of many ups and downs. For this, you always need the support of your partner.

Understand the value of sacrifice and commitment:

If you really love someone you will do anything to make your partner happy. Without any doubt will be ready for any sacrifice and commitment.

Provide stability:

Marriage provides stability in your life, without marriage it is very difficult to be stable, your mind is diverting you in different ways and you are not much focused on your goal and life.

A married person is calmer and motivated in comparison to an unmarried person. So this shows how marriage life is important for getting success in your life.

Provides you a better chance to understand your love: marriage gives you a better way of understanding your love. When you're married, usually, you deeply understand your partner’s feelings and emotions.

What does marriage mean to you?

There is not a perfect answer to this question because it’s a general question. Its answer is different from person to person based on their expectations and experiences.

Most people consider it just a matter of living with another person, whom you share all your things like your feelings, happiness, sorrow, and everything else. 

Some may be considering marriage is a very beautiful part of life, for some, it’s a way of overcoming separateness.

For many people marriage is just like a commitment with another person, to support them and make a healthy life long relationship.

What are the 10 most important things in a marriage?

Trust and Honesty:

It’s the primary need of every marriage that you trust in your partner. Without trust and honesty, there is no means of any relationship or marriage.


Communication is key to your successful relationship. Without communication no relationship can survive, the better you communicate with your partner, your chances of a successful marriage are higher.


This is also one of the most important things in a marriage or any relationship if you respect the feeling and thoughts of your partner, then definitely your partner will also respect you.

Commitment and hard work:

Commitment and hard work are the backbones of your marriage. If you are not committed to your partner, you never love them truly. If you make any commitment with your partner make sure anyhow you have to do it with hard work.


Without love in your marriage, your relationship feels boring. So it’s your duty to deeply love your partner and share all types of emotions between us.

Quality time:

Quality time is a need for your marriage. If you really want to look at your partner happy, whenever possible, you spend quality time with them.

Acceptance and forgiveness:

If you really love your partner, you have to accept them completely with their good or bad.

These things make a big change in your marriage. If sometimes your partner doing any mistake you have to forgive them.

Unconditional support:

In this world, only your partner loves you most, so it’s your responsibility you also love and support them unconditionally.


If you will really want to succeed in your marriage, always appreciate your partner for their good work. This small thing makes a big impact on your partner’s personality.

Show your love:

Whenever possible always try to show your love to your partner, offer kisses and hugs to each other. This makes your marriage experience better than ever.

Common Marriage Problems

No doubt marriage is the greatest gift of God. It is a very sweet part of life. Marriage is connected to both of you with fun, happiness, and romance but also connected to you with a lot of responsibilities and challenges.

Now I am describing major common problems faced by married couples nowadays:

Lack of communication:

This is the most common problem faced by married couples. If they have any problem they do not feel comfortable sharing it with their partner because they have a fear in mind if they speak their problem to them maybe their relationship harm.

Financial issues:

Financial issues greatly impact your marriage even if you madly love each other. This is the main reason for fighting and splitting up.

Romance fading away:

In the beginning stage of marriage, couples are very passionate about love and romance, but later they lose the feeling of love and no romance is remaining between us.

Intimacy issues:

Everyone wants to be intimate with their partner but what happens if you facing a lot of problems with intimacy.

Many people are faced with a lot of problems while having intimate with their partner, mentally and psychologically, they are not ready to be intimate.

Sexual issues:

More than 50% of couples are facing this type of issue. Their body hormones do not work properly and this thing greatly affected their marriage life.


It is the most common problem nowadays. Couples face stress in their relationship because of office work and outer activities they can’t focus on their partner. This all leads to stress and also impacted health.

Overuse of technology and social media:

The use of technology and social media leads couples away from the real feeling of love. People are more practical nowadays they are busier on mobile and have no time to talk personally and face to face each other.

Anger issues:

Because of stress and work pressure, people are not calm and happy, soon they lose patience and get irritated about small things.

Anger really spoils your married life if you do not control it at the right time.

Selfish behavior or self-expectations:

It is not a big issue but sometimes it creates a lot of problems in marriage life. Selfish behavior seriously hurts your partner.

Childcare issues:

As parents have full responsibility for their children, parents are not giving too much time to their children because of work pressure and other things. This really impacts the relationship between children and parents.

What are the signs of a toxic marriage?

A successful marriage requires a lot of effort and commitment, along with trust and love but what happens if you are not feeling happy from your marriage life.

Here are some reasons which indicate that your marriage may be toxic:


Abuse not only affects your marriage life but also hurts you mentally or physically. If your partner is consistently abusing you, it simply means your marriage life is in toxic mode.


If your partner is repeatedly cheating you and lying to you about their affairs and disrespecting your marriage life.

Drug addiction:

If your partner is drug-addicted and incapable of taking responsibility. Always hyper on you without any cause. This is a very critical situation for you.

Trying to control your life:

If your partner always trying to control you and doubt your character. This situation shows a lack of trust in your marriage life.

Avoid you and talking with disrespect:

If your partner avoids you publically and talks with disrespect, it shows your marriage life is suffering hard.

Always fighting:

If you're always fighting with each other on small things, this really puts your marriage life in danger.

Why do people cheat?

Instant gratification:

When people are habitual of instant gratification, they don’t care about anything. They only care about the selfish goal, when they achieve their task, they didn’t care about other people.

Lack of trust:

When both have a lack of trust in their relationship, people start cheating with each other.

Not feeling happy at home:

When a person is not feeling happy at home and also not feeling supported by their partner. They start doing things outside the home which make them happy.

Relationship anxiety:

Sometimes a person has fear in their mind about their relationship, they are unable to perform this relationship longer. 

Anger or revenge:

Sometimes people come to you and try to show that they love you but later after creating a relationship with you they fade away. They do all these things to take revenge on you.

Love is fading out:

When a person realizes that is no love left between them, they try to keep away.

How to spice up your marriage?

Share your desires:

If really want to spice up your marriage life, for this you share your desires with your partner and you also try to find out what’s your partner desire.

Plan your future together:

It is one of the most effective ways to spice up your marriage life. Plan and think about what will we do and where we will go after next month, next year 5 or 10 years. This thing deeply connected you and you work hard to achieve things.

Try to do something new:

You have to try new things with your partner not only inside but also outside. Try to cook food together and share your thoughts about how they feel about them.

Don’t hesitate to flirt in public:

After some time of marriage, couples forget about flirting. So if you really want to spice up your life, restart flirting with your partner in public and surprise them. Offer kisses and hugs to your partner.

Holding hands:

Whenever you go out, try to hold the hand of your partner, this type of physical touch really good place to boost your relationship.

Pray together:

This is a very small thing but it's effective and it really connects both of you emotionally.

Forgive easily:

No one wants to make mistakes, but sometimes it happens without any reason, So if you are hurt by any mistake of your partner. Talk and forgive them because if you take these small things in your mind and do not talk with your partner, it really spoils your relation.

Have sex:

Whenever you have a desire for sex, don’t stop yourself. Have sex with your partner and spice up your marriage life.


What is marriage in the Bible?

As Christians, it is very important to focus on the purpose of marriage. The Bible guides us and encourages us on how to follow marriage and good relations.

According to the Bible God gives us clear information, what is marriage about It is a union of two-person men and women who live together and make a lifelong lovely relationship.

As per the Bible, marriage is all about making the relationship between men and women become one flesh, how women trust their partner and how men sacrifice for their wife and how mortal life is sharing between husband and wife.

What are the hardest years of marriage?

Up and downs is the part of life everyone but when we talk about marriage, the first year is the hardest year of marriage.

Couples have no idea about how they manage things like finance, management, work, and love. Many couples have a lack of confidence there is more time needed for each other. Most of the time couples struggling with how to make their love successful.

Most couples assume from their partner that their partner is doing all the without any talk but it’s not right. You have to set good communication with your partner and talk to them about what both wants and how we manage things.

How to fix a broken marriage?

Marriage is not like a fairy tale, sometimes friction also comes in marriage life. so you always need a positive attitude to deal with friction.

A successful marriage requires a lot of hard work, commitment, trust, and love. Both couples required a good understanding of them.

If you are not honest with your partner then it may be big trouble for your marriage life, your relationship going to be broken.

Many couples really want to fix their broken marriage but they have no idea how to deal with it. If you face the same problem and also want to fix your broken marriage. then you carefully follow some steps:

Make a list:

You have to make a list of all the things that you think ios not going right in your marriage. Rethinking about it and discuss with your partner reasonably and focus on your future.

Listen carefully: You have to listen carefully to what your partner wants from you and make them confident about our relationship.

Say sorry:

If you are really serious about fixing your broken marriage, you have to say sorry to your partner if you have done any mistake and realize how much you love them.

Change your point of view:

You have to change your perception of your partner because no one is perfect in this world. You have completely accepted them without any worry and support them honestly.

Learning from experience:

Both you have learned from your experience, and remember not to try to commit a mistake again which really harms your married life.

Be Honest:

Always try to be honest with your partner and whatever commitment you do, try to deliver on time, and never hesitate to show love with your partner.

What’s the most disturbing truth about marriage?

Marriage is not a fairy tale: 

It comes up with many ups and downs. Sometimes people are suffering very hard to save their marriage life.

Marriage doesn’t assure you about unconditional love: Most people think that if they got married, their love is successful but the reality is different.

In most cases, people lose their interest in love after some time in a relationship. For maintaining your love, you always need a consistent effort.

Marriage is all about compromise:

If you do not compromise with your partner, your marriage will not be going smoothly and you have to face many problems.

So marriage is all about compromise. Without It, there is no chance of a successful relationship.

A marriage fails because of money:

In today’s time, most marriages break up because of money. Most people are facing financial issues and they are unable to perform their responsibilities on time.

Mariage is complex in nature:

There is no hard and fast rule of marriage. you have to deal with it on your own.

It’s your full responsibility on how to react to any situation, no book will guide you on what is wrong or what is right? That’s why Marriage is complex in nature.

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