Aug 4, 2020 in Counseling

How To Save Your Love Relationship

The book is about a personal strategy that you can follow when love is not enough.

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

12 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

12 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

12 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

12 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

12 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

12 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Background:

This workbook is about the personal experience of the author’s successful marriage of nearly four decades. It is further enriched by her 20+ years as a couples’ counselor. The book calls for an honest and introspective assessment of your relationship, opens up constructive discussion, and helps you to form a strategy on how to save your relationship or to end it peacefully.

One partner may study the book to trigger changes in the relationship, or both can review it together. You can read it independently or with the help of a counselor. Amelia has witnessed many relationships being restored time and time. Therefore she felt compelled to capture the process in this workbook.
A relationship is a deeply emotional matter. You might experience inner conflict, whether to end the relationship or not. Maybe you feel stuck, or you might struggle to solve conflict or to communicate with your partner. One partner might have been unfaithful. Consequently, matters can no longer continue as they are. In other words, you need to try something different to bring about the change you desire. You might want to assess what needs to change within yourself.

The goal of the book:

This workbook will assist you in designing your strategy to save your love relationship; at precisely that time that you discover that love is not enough. Working through this book can be a last resort.

What the book is about:

The book addresses the common conflict areas in a relationship, including a lack of communication, the power struggle; conflict; the pain, guilt, and shame of cheating and decreasing libido. Throughout their years together, couples change, grow, and develops. It calls for continuous adaptations. It is, therefore, vital to acknowledge each other’s efforts to adapt to these changes. As a result, all this is discussed in the workbook.

To conclude, each chapter ends with a set of questions. Your answers become your customized manual on how to express your love daily.