Feb 18, 2021 in Life Coaching
Do You Know How To Cross Your Bridge?
Life is like a bridge, we're trusting that this bridge is going to stay stable and structurally sound and not collapse.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Do you see all these particles moving? You just stare at them long enough on this bridge. You realize how similar these parts are to people. Each one of these little specks are individual specs, but they all come from collectively the same thing. They're all moving collectively towards the same direction. Different things might happen to them. Some might get stuck, some might sink, are all different shapes, and they're all different sizes. But they're all moving towards the same area, they're all moving with the current. Very similar to life. In fact walking on this bridge is very similar to life.
Think about your walking, you might be afraid to walk, you might see what's underneath you and think that you might fall. We're trusting that this bridge is going to stay structurally sound and not collapse. There's all these other interesting things you could trip on. You could find a loose plank within the bridge, scare the shit out of you. You could walk on an easier path. But it's not any safer. Because you're still on this bridge. You just feel like it is when you can see the bottom where you might fall, you get extra scared. But I'm still moving. I'm still walking towards the end of the bridge.
That's what's most important. I could think about if this bridge were to fall, sure, would I plummet into this water? It'll probably be freezing cold. But that doesn't necessarily mean I would die. It's pretty shallow. So I might even break my legs. But what's good of thinking like that, all I care about is getting to the end of the bridge.
There's all these messages on the bridge. All these distractions, beautiful scenery. When you look off to the side of the bridge, you can see so many different things. You can look back and see how far you've come to appreciate the fact that you're even on a bridge. What did it take to even build this bridge you find yourself depending upon right now? Other people before you built this bridge so that you could walk on it.
It's just like life. You're only here because somebody else did a lot of things you can think about while walking on a bridge. As long as you keep walking, that's what's most important. Because sooner or later, as long as you keep moving forward, you're gonna get closer and closer to your destination. You might have some hiccups along the way that might delay you. You might even want to jump off the bridge at certain times. A lot of people want to jump off the bridge. That's okay to stand up the railing here. Just think about jumping off, you have a choice, you could jump, jump right off that bridge. Or you could keep looking forward and see how much closer you are to where you wanted to be.
You have a choice. You could stop walking forward and turn backwards, moving in the opposite direction. point is you have that choice. The cool part is about a bridge. As you could go back and forth. You can do whatever you want.
Just accept that you're walking on a bridge. Why not be consciously aware of that?