Sep 15, 2022 in Life Coaching
Where do you "quietly quit?" How do you stop?
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
I have recently read an article about “Quiet Quitting.” It refers to something that some employees are doing in the workplace. What it means is that employees who feel as though they are being saddled with ever more work and less time to do it in, do just enough of their work to not get fired. It means discarding the idea of working hard when we are at work, striving for excellence and serving the clients to our best ability and turning out a quality work product. Even though sometimes hard work may not be compensated, the article goes on to say that it used to be a matter of pride when someone had a good work ethic. The companies hire us with the expectation that we will give it our all instead of just being passive aggressive and doing the bare minimum.
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I would like to take this idea a bit further and add it to “the big picture.” I think that this idea can be generalized into every part of our lives, where the cost is higher than just losing our jobs. How many areas of your life have you “quietly quit” in? How many areas have you decided that giving all you have got in you, just is not worth the effort? Let us take a look at your private home life. In the beginning of your partnership with someone; we start out really enjoying putting effort in to making our potential partner feel special and important to us. We go out of our way and do things for them. We might write a story or a poem just for them, we might buy their favorite food or stop by their work or home just for a kiss. Everyone feels good! The person giving and the person “getting.” The person giving feels joy and happiness because the other person was appreciative, and it touched them. The person “getting” feels good because we were important enough for the other person to go out of their way for…Depending on how “old school” you and your partner are, there are different ways that each partner can show that they are interested in the other, for example, there are roles-that are generational, and expectations for how “courting” is done. Meaning, my grandmother had different expectations for how dating went than I do (even though some of my ideas are old school) and my daughter has a different idea about it and so on.
Anyways, the idea is that in the beginning, we try hard to let our partner know that we are interested in them and that they should pick us (picture a bird strutting around showing off their feathers (both male and female). Then we get sloppy, and we might “quietly quit.” Now we are too busy to be fully present with our partner. When they tell us about their day, we might say things like “umm, mmmhmm” when we are thinking about what we want to say about OUR day! We do not “hear” them. It is not really the fault of one or the other. Like my husband has said, “I want her to remember why she picked me” and I feel the same way about him. For example, if we are going out, I take special care with my makeup and wear clothes that I know he likes on me. What is one small thing that you could do that would make a friend, lover, partner (if they are different people