May 24, 2020 in Life Coaching
Life Coach: A look at Work Life Balance Reality VS You
This article is a blog that focuses on the everyday compromise of work-life-balance.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Ding! Ding! Ding!
Before we know it, the bell (or our alarm clock) sounds and it's time to face the world. We planned the day very well, or so we thought until life delivers a left hook which causes us to fall. The left hook could have been preceded by a series of blows which included a sudden car accident, stolen credit card, urgent phone call from child's school, and then a global pandemic to top it all off. Think about any of the setbacks you have encountered. Did you plan for life before or after you hit the ground?
The referee counts "1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 !!!!!!!!!" There is no movement from you on the ground. Then, the referee waves both arms to indicate that life has knocked you clean out. While on the ground, you revisit how all of this happen so sudden but have no answers. What if the answers centered on the reality of work life balance? Is it important to think about what's important to you and develop a plan? Let's look at the reality of things....
Add to myWE:
We all fight the good fight of trying to balance the moving parts of life which include family, love, spirituality, leisure, work, sleep etc. Why does it seem like we only have time for work and responsibilities? The truth is we often create our own greatness or opportunity for growth. Think about that sudden car accident. Maybe you rushed to work, causing anxiety, which impacted your feelings/thinking/judgement, which led to the car accident. The stolen credit card could have been compromised at the gas station when you communicated to your boss that you was running late. You simply didn't have enough energy or awareness of your surroundings because you did not get adequate sleep! Accordingly, you surely didn't have enough energy/time to help your child with their homework and now the school is calling.Then, the global pandemic happens, and you are now the teacher. When does it ever get better? It's very difficult to obtain a work life balance harmony but the journey to 10000 steps starts with 1. Let's start by focusing on 7-8 hours of sleep each night. Who's with me? We are here to coach you. Your path to greatness begins now!
Ricky Hogens MHS, CAMS II, CNS