Aug 5, 2021 in Life Coaching
Is Detachment for everyone?!
Reasons why I believe everyone should practice detachment.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Is detachment for everyone?
Why do one need to be practicing meditation to feel detached from oneself? After all we are all here to experience life and without complete involvement how can one experience it fully? Someone asked and quite valid too.
I believe there is a hair line difference in involvement and attachment. For example your hands are attached to your physical body but the tasks you are doing with the use of your hands are something you are involved in and the trouble starts when one starts believing that the tasks those are done by hands are hands themselves.
When you enter a cinema hall, why all the lights are turned off ?! So that the viewer can be free from all the outside distractions and can concentrate on the big screen and the fine details of surround sound to enjoy the experience entirely by being present only in the plot of the story for the time being but if a particular viewer gets attached to a specific character of the story even after coming out of a movie theatre and starts to identify himself/herself as that character that’s when everyone knows that the person needs a “psychiatrist”. Similarly in a bigger picture we are only performing a small part in this lifetime on this planet but we need to remember that this is not our identity and that is the reason everyone needs to practice detachment.
If you are employed to do a job and if you attach your identity to that job that is when all the drama starts but if you just perform the task with full involvement thinking this is something what is right for me to do in the present moment without having past perceptions or anticipation of future outcomes than that becomes true detachment. If you are attached with a profession you will never be able to retire from that label but if you are only involved in a profession retirement would be part of the experience and this process would take a whole new perspective of living life.
Similarly detachment is necessary in all areas of life because the more you are attached and entangled in your current incarnation more difficult it will be to gather your soul fragments and transform into the new energy with an intension of learning new lessons attachment will keep you in the same loop and will keep repeating it in to your 3d reality again and again where as involvement will keep you fully engaged and powerfully present in here and now to give you complete concentration in learning the lessons and conclude them with firm knowledge and trust giving you freedom not having to repeat the cycles and eventually lead you towards the liberation similar to an educational institution where you level up every year when you pass the certain grades to eventually get graduated from the entire curriculum of chosen subjects.
Hope this has helped and will guide all of you towards your graduation day. I wish you all endless joy.
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