Jul 4, 2021 in Life Coaching
The Strange moment
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
I am a stranger learning to love the strangers around me.
I love it when strangers smile at me and I smile back, and we have that nice strange smiling moment.
Have you ever tried it?!
If not give it a try because sometimes those kind of little moments become memories, shinning like the sun upon us for days to come or sometimes stays with us for the entire life & beyond because strangers are just friends waiting to happen and souls know not faces but just the vibrations.
Today I want to share here a similar moment with a stranger I met at the airport.
We both had a mask on our faces ‘for obvious reason’ and we both were in rush, I was in rush because I was nearly home and I am not entirely sure but I believe he was in rush because of excitement.. the enthusiasm of a young person starting to unfold a new chapter of his life was apparent in his body language.
He asked a question which led to a full blown conversation, thankfully I was just being me ‘mindful & present’ in-spite of rush, unaware of his observations and sensitivity towards my actions.
Later I came to know the reason of his attentiveness to the moment, actually a writer inside of him was noticing minutely the world around him and I unknowingly became part of his experience..
I am glad I contributed to make his new beginning a pleasant one.. and I know this because he just shared this with me “a piece of his writing, a piece of his heart, a piece of his expression”
I have titled it as ‘oasis’ Because it most definitely has impacted me in a similar way:
I felt honoured that I was able to reflect the love I have always received in abundance from the universe and reciprocated it back on being presented with an opportunity.
With a very grateful heart I would like to Remind you all that our reality is not something readymade we create it ourselves with our own thoughts.
So one should never feel alone, never hesitate in initiating conversations, never feel ashamed to seek help, because universe is always as ready & willing to play with us as we are.
When we ask, we receive and to me that’s a fact proven by an experience.
As Our thoughts creates our own reality, if we think happy thoughts we stay happy forever.
Yes it’s possible that Sometimes we don’t like what we see but, we see what we are, so when we are triggered, instead of getting upset about it, we need to try and find out what the situation is trying to teach us because the earlier we figure it out and learn the lesson it’s trying to teach us the sooner discomfort it’s causing will disappear from our reality. By working on ourselves constructively & by being mindfully present in the moment we can most definitely change our lives and of others for better, and this is not a parting message, it’s just a beginning.
Wishing you all endless joy.
(Note to my oases: blessed are those who see beauty in humble places where others see nothing, stay blessed, stay YOU.)
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