Nov 23, 2020 in Life Coaching
Forgiveness is for you not for others
Forgiveness is for you not for others
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
This year in October Mercury is entering Scorpio & this season is all about placing an emphasis on expressing the deep rooted emotions we may have been skipping past. While mercury in libra asked us to stand our ground & speak about our truth, Mercury in Scorpio ask us to go to the depth of our being, face our shadow side and find ways to tap into the powers that may lay dormant inside of us. It is telling us not to be afraid of dark but to Appreciate it, Not only to love our lights but also to Embrace our shadows.
It is now Time for complete integration of wholeness. Our shadow side isn’t meant to be ignored. It’s there to be understood, accepted, loved, healed, honoured & released.
So while Normally, I post general advice for all, this month I am guided to share an answer to a specific question instead, which was bothering me since a while now, being a scorpion myself and as charity begins from home, I trust that all out there would probably will resonate with & be benefited by this advice in the month of October.
Add to myWE:
My question to myself was what do I need to work on this month:
Forgiveness is coming out as an answer intuitively,
It’s been said that scorpions are very revengeful & no one can escape scorpion’s sting because scorpions normally have hard time to forgive people but in actual fact “an untrampled scorpion troubles no one” normally, so it’s important to learn that when ever & what ever bitterness comes out of us, it is there because of the energetic wounds of past which are in need to be looked after, all the triggering experiences are always there to serve us & help us achieve healing for our highest good, the best analogy I can use here is one of flowers, even when they are crushed they give nothing but fragrance because that’s what lies inside of them. Similarly to the oranges when we squeeze orange only orange juice can come out not an apple juice or a pineapple juice because that’s not what’s inside of an orange, so in the school of life if we are crushed or squeezed and if the bitterness comes out of us than at that point of time it’s becomes very crucial for us to be able to recognise and remember that triggering situations are not for hurting us in actual fact our life’s experiences are designed and handpicked for healing us, we need to fill and in-fact stuff ourselves with so much love that only love can come out when we are crushed or squeezed because love conquers all, so what we need to work on is forgiveness, we need to learn to forgive people who have hurt us in the past because they were our soulmates working with us to achieve our highest and greatest good and trying to make us understand the important life-lesson of forgiveness,
Though there is a fine line between forgiveness and being treated like a dormant. Forgiveness is not about accepting or criticising bad or immoral behaviour or belittling the pain or hurt it has caused it simply is a commitment to stop telling a same old story to ourselves so that we do not carry forward it’s burden anymore and while we need to learn to set boundaries and show people how to treat us, at the same time we need to release the grudge and resentment towards others as well, because anger is like a burning coal we hold on in our hands, it only burns ourselves not others, the longer we hold on to it the deeper the wound gets causing more and more pain within us and These energetic wounds can get so deeply routed in to our psyche that it can even show up in our reality in the form of life threatening diseases like cancer so in order to avoid these painful illnesses & to prevent their growth from the very roots, at some point we have to learn to let it go by ourselves without any external force applied, which means, we need to change the story we keep telling ourselves, we need to find closers for any situation within ourselves, we need to learn to find peace with all the circumstances and learn to accept the apologies which were never made, we need to learn to move on and find our own happiness not for others or not for anyone else but for our own highest and greatest good.
I hope this will help, I wish you all endless joy.
Have a great month ahead.