Nov 23, 2020 in Life Coaching
No pain no gain!
Outside the comfort zone there is growth
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Some times in life we all feel wounded, we find it hard to move on when we experience delays in manifesting our dreams, when plans being cancelled and nothing seems to be going right, when we feel hurt and let down by people and everything seems to be taking a long period of time to happen it becomes very challenging to stay calm & keep our sanity, our faith being tested and the confidence being shaken, we start moaning about everything going wrong or being unjust, we start doubting about the existence of the higher power and it’s capacity to resolve things in a balanced manner. It seems to be impossible to go on any longer it’s very important to breath and find support for the moment,
We need to step back and count our blessings, it’s very important to hold on for little longer and be grateful for what we have and achieved so far because the night always feel little darker just before the dawn so insisted of giving up and fearing the future we need to divert our energy to holding on to this moment and being grateful for our blessings because the energy flows where your attention goes, if you will feed your fears and insecurities life will show you more of those experience and emotions in your future but if you will pay more attention to your blessings more blessings will flow towards you.
Positive mindset will direct us towards a passionate new beginning & a fresh new start. It will lead to success and stability because when one door closes it always opens another one for a new opportunity. It always feels hard to let go of things which we believe belongs to us or is a part of our identity but we need to remember that if our hands won’t be empty, how will we be capable of receiving bigger and better things going forward because when thing is being taken from us it always gets replaced by things more suitable for our learning and growth. The only things constant in this universe is change everything else is temporary, so we should never be afraid of change no matter how painful it seems, because pain is the beginning of growth, in autumn trees lose all their leaves only to grow new ones in the spring, when the seed is being planted under the earth it goes through lot of pain in order to become a grand tree in the future, a caterpillar needs to go through a very painful transformation to be able to convert into a beautiful butterfly in order to birth a new life a mother has to go through tremendous amount of pain, so pain is an unavoidable part of growth and growth is unavoidable part of evolution and we all are here to grow and evolve physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually so hold on a little longer better days are on the horizon.
I wish you all endless joy.