Feb 18, 2020 in Counseling
#1 reason why you’re so insecure
There are a pluthera of reasons why people are insecure... but what’s #1
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Are you insecure?
If you answered yes to that question you'll be surprised about what you can do to change that.
If you answered no or maybe, still listen because what I'm about to tell you can change your whole way of life and thinking.
- The #1 reason of why people are so insecure is because of how they speak/think about themselves. Literally that's all ! How you speak/think about yourself and others unconsciously gets trapped in your paradigm of life. Therefore if you constantly speak bad about yourself, even if jokingly. You will naturally just feel bad about yourself and look at yourself in a bad way. That will cause you to become insecure even if you can't recognize it.
How can you change ..
The easiest way to change this is to simply alter your thinking/speaking. Try to speak positive about yourself and others, and if you can't don't say anything at all. You have to be mindful of the things you say and think and if you occasionally slip up, simply notice it and change that thought or what you said to something positive. Don't beat yourself up about it. Don't put to much pressure on yourself. We are all human and no one is perfect.
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