Nov 7, 2020 in Life Coaching

How Self Confidence Can Impact Intimacy

How you feel about yourself impacts the way you allow others to make you feel.

16 members found this to be effective.

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

12 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

12 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

12 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

12 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

12 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

12 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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I know we all don’t love everything about what we see in the mirror. It’s natural to be your own worst critic. Often times we let these insecurities manifest in our behavior and actions around friends, family, co-workers, even strangers.

What if I told you that it is impossible to see yourself as others see you? We all have that inner critic that judges us a bit harsher than others. Having negative body image issues can really suck the enjoyment out of life. It’s important to realize that others value self-confidence over a ‘perfect body or face’.

Your way of thinking can really determine the way others view you and you view yourself. It can also affect your sexual confidence. The brain is the most important sexual organ when it comes to sexual pleasure.

I have sexual partners from years ago that still email or text me. Not because I’m the prettiest, or I have this amazing bag of tricks (which I do), it’s because my confidence is intoxicating and unforgettable.

Let me put it like this, full body pleasure requires your willingness to relax and accept pleasure. You can’t fully relax if you’re thinking how does the lighting make my stretch marks look. Because in reality the last thing your partner is thinking about at this point are any of the flaws YOU see in yourself. They are too busy concentrating on the experience, on the essence of being with you. Clear your mind and relax. Let your partner know that you are only focusing on the moment.

In a nutshell, having negative thoughts can really impede your ability to let go and have amazing intimacy.

At Intimacy Life Coaching, one of the things I can guide my clients learning how to be a more sexually self confident person. My sessions give you tools to be honest about what you really want sexually.

Let a positive mind, body and spirit lead you to greater more fulfilling intimacy.