It's your beliefs that shape your decisions, actions and destiny.
It is very important to know yourself and to understand that your background dictates who you are. The beliefs and values you have are the one to lead your life decisions.
In order to stop and blame yourself or anyone else, take a look and analyse who you really are? Which is your background? How was your education and how the values you have reached you? Do you agree with all your family or society beliefs? Some may feel confused or in conflict and will be unhappy with their life without reason apparently. This is the reason actually, that what you think and what you believe it may be different at some point.
I have founded Our Smart Space as a virtual intelligent environment where to meet like minded people. I adore to communicate with people and learn each day something from every person during my online consultation, counseling or coaching session.