Feb 11, 2020 in Life Coaching
3 Things That Keep People From Realizing Their Goals
3 Things That Keep People From Realizing Their Goals
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
It is easy to set and have goals but working towards them is another story. Perhaps you have a set of goals, but you haven't achieved most of them yet. This may be because one or two obstacles emerge blocking the goal visualization to take place. The obstacles are just part of the journey; once you have identified them, learn to embrace them as things you can handle.
Roadblocks can be internal factors or external factors that deny you access to the visualization of goals. Roadblocks can be big or small, and in either case, you must learn how to overcome them to realize your goals. It can be a negative mindset, lack of focus, surrounding yourself with negative people, making excuses, holding onto the past, etc. Sometimes, it’s a simple as not adequately setting your goals, or forgetting to set realistic deadlines for them.
Fear is one of the most significant challenges that keep one from realizing your goals. It is a constant mental reminder that oppresses your capacity with lots of false evidence.
• FEAR OF FAILURE
This happens when you want to start something or do something specific. The fear of failure shows up with a constant suggestion that you are not able to do it. People do not want to see their efforts get wasted.
• FEAR OF REJECTION
Humans are social beings in one way or another; we want to please others with the hope that they will share the same feelings and passions that we have. We worry about our self-esteem with the possibility of having to take "no" for an answer.
• FEAR OF BEING UNCOMFORTABLE
With actions that you have completed and are comfortable with, you can easily see the benefits of; you know what to expect. Taking a risk, moving out of that comfort zone, the negative consequences seem to far outweigh the positive.
• FEAR OF SUCCESS
You fear that success will keep you from having the normal life like you're used to, or that becoming successful will be a stressful situation. Or maybe you don't want success to be taken away from you after you have achieved it.
Procrastinating is the thief of time. This proves to be true when you put your goals off until ‘someday’ or taking action when you ‘feel ready.’ The two are the worst killers of goal realization because ‘someday’ is not a time or day found in any calendar. You must set a clear plan by creating a time frame to assist you towards your goal visualization. Do not also wait for inspiration to come out of nowhere to inspire you to keep going.
Roadblocks, fears, and procrastination are killers of the visualization process. Do not take it as a ‘stop sign’ but a sign that you can acknowledge, face, and defeat the enemy of progress.
Fear and another whole host of reasons can be responsible for why we can’t realize and achieve our life goals. If you find that you have a difficult time in overcoming these obstacles, you can always turn to life coaches and other
professionals to help you transition from one point in your life to another.
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