Jun 22, 2020 in Life Coaching
The Culture and Purpose Development
Have you ever felt that something keeps pulling you back into the place you're trying to leave? Find out how to break out!
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
The Culture and Purpose Development
The culture we live in is designed to exploit weaknesses in our personal purpose. Have you ever made one step forward, two steps sideways, and three steps backward? If so, the reason for this crazy dance is that we are surrounded by a purpose stealing culture.
The culture operates this way because it is highly developed in its purpose. The activity of the culture does not refer to any particular people group or region of the world, but to a system that is self-propagating. Unfortunately, the action of the system works at the expense of people who do not know their purpose. Personal purpose is connected to an individual’s design potential. To understand design potential, personal development training is needed. When adequately trained, the purpose I.Q. of the individual can be raised. Increasing personal I.Q. is not as difficult as it sounds. In fact, the insight needed to increase one’s purpose I.Q. is already uniquely inside the individual. The difficulty in accessing one’s purpose I.Q. is associated with the tendency to ignore, or overlook the obvious, to focus on flaws. The flaws are conveniently provided by the system, as reminders of things you are not – not small enough, not tall enough, not pretty enough, not wealthy enough.
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To preserve the energy of purpose and promote a personal purpose I.Q. that defies the culture’s coup against your purpose, start with a K.E.I. assessment. Sound familiar? Probably not. Most are familiar with K.P.I.’s. K.E.I.s are Key Existence Indicators. K.P.I.s are, of course, Key Performance Indicators. Most organizations focus on KPIs because the measure of performance is important to growth and achievement. Growth breaks people out of the clutches of the system of the culture. However, performance is linked to existence.
The state you are in is important. Peak state, highly motivated, and other descriptions speak to the state of a person, but so does depression, stress, and bad attitudes. Inside of the person is their true existence. Some of the other stuff can be faked, but we can’t fool ourselves on the inside. By combining one’s purpose I.Q. with how they exist, the power that operates below the surface of common consciousness combines to defy the system’s grip and activate sustainable performance.