Mar 13, 2023 in Online Consultations

The Purpose of Being You

You are no mistake, in fact, you won the race against millions of potential advocates who tried to reach the egg! You did...

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Ava Garcia

12 Sep

How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

12 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

12 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

12 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

12 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

12 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

12 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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The Purpose of Being You

Too many people look for their worth outside of themselves. Like the weather, many persons find themselves changing with the latest forecast. This should not be. Change begins on the inside, or at least it should. This, of course, supposes that self-sabotage is not underway. You’re not doing that to yourself, right? Below, are 3 important reasons why your being is of purpose.

Being you is by design.
Being you is by necessity.
Being you is by purpose.

Being you by design is supported by the idea that you are no mistake. Some estimate that between 200,000,000 and 600,000,000 sperm cells were in a race before you were conceived. You won the race! There is no way you can discount that you came here as no mistake. You don’t luck up and win a race that big. Think about it. You don’t have anywhere close to that many competitors walking the planet trying to beat you to your best life. By those odds, you are born a winner. Let’s settle that once and for all.

Being you by necessity is the next reasonable occurrence because to win with those odds necessitates that a purpose is attached to your conception. Consider this. You, nor I knew we were swimming! Neither of us is aware of who was beside us, in front of us, or behind us. We just kept swimming. It is conceivable that we received help to win because something about us, something within us, required victory so that life could begin. This help brought us together. You had to arrive here because you are a person of multiple purposes, some of them will be revealed when the sessions begin.

Being you is by purpose. You are not supposed to be someone else. You are supposed to, be you! You may look, feel, or sound weird to someone else, but is being you a design flaw? No, it is unique, but only as known by the designer. Some of us as consumers have consumed the wrong insights from other consumers who are fighting their design potential at the expense of yours. In plain terms, if people who are themselves designed, get their ques from someone other than the manufacturer, it is likely that life is being lived using the wrong instructions. There are many ways to find your design potential. Just look at your body. There are no less than 8 obvious clues that spell out the Purpose of Being You. If you think you already know, it’s 3 times deeper than you might think. To learn more click the link.