Feb 9, 2021 in Counseling
Where You Supposed To Be?
Where Are You Supposed To Be.. Haven't you ever thought that before? Or wondered is this how my life turned out!
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
WHERE YOU Supposed TO BE..
I remember saying "where you supposed to be.." countless, times as a teacher, to my students who were in a high school, at the time. I would find some of the students skipping their classes, Some would give straight answers and tell me they were skipping class, other's would ask.."Am I in trouble? Ms. Lee, and I would respond no..get where you supposed to be.. Each one of the students had two things in common, 1. )they were skipping their classes, 2). They were caught skipping 3).They had a choice to skip or not 4). 5). Tell the truth or lie 6)Deal with the consequences. I always gave a warning, and a lecture to the students skipping or marched them straight to the office if necessary.
As a responsible adult's we have to make choices daily, for ourselves, and sometimes for others as well." Adulting " as it is called is not an easy task, because. whether we feel like Adulting, the job has to be done by who..Us, those that knowingly or even unknowingly signed up for the task of sometimes feeling like being "everything to everybody " can be exhausting, sometimes you must rest, take a break, reflect even on just where you are supposed to be..Your dreams are still within you it is up to us to pull them out and dust them off and go for it! Where are you supposed to be? I found out that most people are angry based on their idea of what they thought their life was to be like..instead of creating the life they desire. An, example being in a new mall trying to find to find food cort, but didn't even stop to look at the map! Here are some suggestions I created and I found myself also doing.
Write down, where learn you are at in your life, whether it is career wise, unemployed, not sure where you are at and need guidance or at the point of giving up and settling for where you are yet want better, but don't know how to get there, and to sit down with yourself and be honest, with yourself and ask where am I and where I need to be? Your assignment meant first is to know..You Got this! get in a place, where you can focus, and start by remembering at what point you stopped wanting more for yourself , when did your dreams not become your reality, was it you,,other people's opinions?fear?..Paralyzes alot of people and their stories write it down all down and look at what is really keeping you from reaching your goal(s), Get, up from where you are at and ..Go for what you know..Why not you? While, your on this Journey make sure to encourage yourself and maintain a positive mindset. Take it, step by step and before you know it you are where you should and want to be, stay focused and keep going. It may sometime, but your worth it, and you will be glad, you took, the first step toward your goals. So, step out, there, get information, ask those they may have the answers you need, to move forward, but don't let that or even disappointment stop you from progressing forward, feelings and emotions may come and go.. However, don't you sometimes want to put, your talent, art, music, writing, something that you created out there You, to have something to say or do in this world. We may never know who we may touch with, our talent, calling, caring and compassion on our Journeys and even who's life we may have touched, on our journey's, I'm so glad I overcame my shyness and I'm doing what I love and when, fear, anxiety or shyness tries to rise up..I do what I have passion and desire to do anyway.
I'm rooting for You!