Oct 28, 2019 in Reputation
How Your Reputation Makes Business and Life Easier or More Difficult
We all would like a quality, strong reputation yet not all of us know how to create that strength of reputation or how to pr
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Do you know that a quality reputation is an asset, a currency that you need and benefit from in life, whether in your personal or professional life?
Most people don't think about reputation that way, see it that way or believe it yet it's factual and evidential.
When your are continuously building your reputation, it is like any currency you own and it becomes "working capital" to help make life easier and protect you. The same holds true if you are neglecting your reputation or worse, do damage to it, whether one time or repeatedly, whether in small negative experiences for other people or one large, significant one.
When you have sufficient reputation capital and are always adding to it by building it with high character when you are interacting with others, when you make a relative minor mistake (in the eyes of others) you can better weather the judgment you receive, better than if your reputation is shaky or poor.
If a reputation crisis hits, and no company or individual is entirely immune, then a high-quality reputation will often allow you to weather the storm if the crisis is not due to an egregrious scandal, if you also respond in a way that is deserving of a lofty reputation.
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However, this is where many individuals and organizations compound their misery and either fall short or correcting reputation damage, or they fail.
Communication and subsequent actions, the correct ones for the situation, can help restore or rebuild trust, credibility and reputation.
People in reputation crisis, individuals and organizations, get lost in emotions and analysis paralysis and rarely respond most effectively for protection or correction or both. That's where a specialist can prove valuable, if not invaluable to assist you on one specific reputation difficulty or crisis, or become an ongoing resource asset for you, or to conduct the communications for you.
Michael Toebe is a specialist for reputation and crisis - serving individuals and organizations with advisory, consulting, coaching, communications and risk management for reputation and crisis. His published articles have appeared in online magazines Chief Executive, Corporate Board Member, Corporate Compliance Insights and the New York Law Journal. He publishes the Reputation Times newsletter and is writing a book on reputation crisis (expected publishing date, early 2020). You can find him on LinkedIn and Twitter (ReputationTalk).